The Perfect Bull For Me

Even though, I’ve been in this lifestyle for years, I’m not necessarily comfortable with calling my lovers “Bulls”.  Heck, I never knew that’s what they were called until doing some online research a couple of years ago.  Although “Bull” Isn’t necessarily my favorite word, It certainly fits the description of what  I need.

I wish that a more mainstream dating app or social media existed for people like me.  A few friends have suggested that I should stop  wishing  and create my own.  I’m seriously thinking of It. I know that the need Is there because of all the Kik groups I’ve been a member of at one time or another.

What type of bull Is perfect for me?

He should be adventurous, openminded,  non- possessive, good sense of humor, nice cock that stays hard (even with a condom on),great stamina, fit and stable.

I prefer him to be  local, but I’m willing to travel If we have an amazing connection. Ahh yes, I like them young too (under 35). Twenty years old Is  my minimum but I’ve been chatting with some nineteen year olds that are trying to get me to rethink that.

A Night With A Sexy Latin Lover

Can you picture this? If Rico Suave (Gerardo) and Prince were to create a love child, that’s what “Latin Lover” looks like. Long dark curly hair ( with tons of mousse and hairspray) and olive skin color. He lines his eyes much better than I do mine and dresses very trendy.   Somehow he seemed taller when we video chatted (He’s also two inches shorter than I am). Very fit, but on the skinny side.  When I matched with him on Tinder, I thought to myself ” I’m going to totally reawaken my high school fantasy of fucking Prince” ( yes, I was a naughty girl back then too). A night with this sexy Latin lover really excited me.

He is a strange one and that’s saying a lot coming from me. LL often timeless refers to himself in the third person and never answers a simple question with a simple answer. I’ll give you an example.  I asked him where he was from, his response: “Earth, but this cock Is Brazilian”. I thought to myself, this guy Is either some kind of porn star or stripper.  He just gives off that vibe although he never confirmed this with me.

We went out for drinks to test the chemistry In person.  He was every bit the consummate gentleman. Very attentive to my wants and needs.  He’s all about romance and a very skilled lover.  Even though  I enjoyed spending time with him, I felt the need to constantly fix my makeup and was afraid to wrinkle his perfectly ironed shirt.  He asked me to see him again when he comes back to my city In three month’s and I promised him that I would.

Latin Lover

Can you picture this? If Rico Suave (Gerardo) and Prince were to create a love child, that’s what “Latin Lover” looks like. Long dark curly hair ( with tons of mousse and hairspray) and olive skin color. He lines his eyes much better than I do mine and dresses very trendy.   Some how he seemed taller when we video chatted (He’s also two inches shorter than I am). Very fit, but on the skinny side.  When I matched with him, I thought to myself ” I’m going to  totally reawaken my high school fantasy of fucking Prince” ( yes, I was a naughty girl back then too).

He Is a strange one and that’s saying a lot coming from me. LL often timeless refers to himself in the third person and never answers a simple question with a simple answer. I’ll give you an example.  I asked him where he was from , his response: “Earth, but this cock Is Brazilian”. I thought to myself, this guy Is either some kind of porn star or stripper.  He just gives off that vibe although he never confirmed this with me.

We went out for drinks to test the chemistry In person.  He was every bit the consummate gentleman. Very attentive to my wants and needs.  He’s all about romance and a very skilled lover.  Even though  I enjoyed spending time with him, I felt the need to constantly fix my makeup and was afraid to wrinkle his perfectly ironed shirt.  He asked me to see him again when he comes back to my city In three month’s and I promised him that I would.

 

Want to Keep My Attention After We’ve Matched on a Dating App?

Here are some tips:

  1. Tell me you’ve read my blog and quote bits of It when chatting with me. I love that!
  2. Don’t be shy, send me the frontal nudes.
  3. Tell me about yourself , show your personality.
  4. Talk about sex, tell me what you’re into.
  5. When sending pics or videos, hide the clutter and clean your mirrors.
  6. Be respectful.
  7. Look like your pictures.
  8. Live video chat Is a must before meeting.
  9. If I’ve shown you through live chat or pics that I’m real, don’t pester me for additional pics/ videos. As you can see, I have pics/videos on Instagram and I’m newly on Snapchat if you wish to see more of me. Because of limited time, I cannot always do live chats. Remember, this Is recreational and not a job for me.

 

**Will add more tips as they come to mind.

Summer Vacation-I Call Him Daddy

He’s strong, hot and the complete opposite of shy with the right dose of kink.  I didn’t connect with him on a dating site or any of my usual ways.  He actually found me in a Kik group I was a member of a few months ago. I asked him his name, he replied: “my buddies call me Brian, but I want you to call me “Daddy”. Without hesitation, I called him Daddy ( I also call him Daddy because it turns me on).

 I told him I’m married, he replied: “I like taken girls“. I asked for a cock pic and playfully asked If he was scared. He sends me one immediately and replied: ” Who’s scared? Let me begin by saying he has nothing to fear In that department, Daddy is physical perfection.  He is handsome! Deep voice,  6ft 4 and jacked. He has the most gorgeous red hair (and a 10inch monster).

Xfinity Remote Test Not Needed

That monster Is a sight to behold.  It passed all of my cock judging tips with flying colors. Matter of fact, I never needed to ask for specific poses to prove that he was being truthful. I was in awe the first time I saw it.  Daddy Is very proud of his monster and likes It worshipped verbally and physically. 

His Commands

“Baby, I want to see you right now”! or “Show off for Daddy”. I get those messages from him often and like a giddy school girl, I’d stop whatever I’m doing and either send him a video or pic of myself. Sometimes It’s of me still In bed, or I maybe doing some work in my home office and Daddy just sends me a message wanting to watch my tits bounce.  It’s a nice sexy distraction so I’m happy to indulge him.

I’ll tell him of potential lovers or lovers I’ve seen and his most frequently asked questions are: “His he as big as Daddy ?” or “Are you getting good dick regularly”? He likes when I tell him everything.

Oh, I so wish we lived closer together. I do have some free time coming up this summer and he’s actually helping me plan a getaway around his town.

I’m actually a bit nervous writing about someone who reads my posts often and now will be reading my intimate thoughts about him. On the other hand, me being so candid In my posts gives him all the clues to properly ring my bell, this could actually enhance the experience.

 

I Call Him ”Daddy”

He’s strong, hot and the complete opposite of shy with the right dose of kink.  I didn’t connect with him on a dating site or any of my usual ways .  He actually found me in a Kik group I was a member of a few months ago.   I find him fascinating .  I told him I’m married, he replied ; I like taken girls. I asked for a cock pic and playfully asked If he was scared. He sends me one immediately and replied; Who’s scared? Let me begin by saying he has nothing to fear In that department, “Daddy” Is physical perfection.  Handsome, deep voice,  6ft 4 and jacked with gorgeous red hair an a ten inch monster .

That monster Is a sight to behold.  It passed all of my cock judging tips with flying colors . Matter of fact, I never needed to ask  for specific poses to prove that he was being truthful of It’s size.    I was in awe the first time I saw it.  Daddy Is very proud of his monster and likes It worshipped verbally and physically.

“Baby, I want to see you right now”! or “Show off for Daddy”. I get those messages from him often and like a giddy school girl, I’d stop whatever I’m doing and either send him a video or pic of myself. Sometimes It’s of me still In bed or I maybe doing some work in my home office and Daddy just sends me a message wanting to watch my tits bounce .  It’s a nice sexy distraction so I’m happy to indulge him.

I’ll tell him of potential lovers or lovers I’ve seen and his most frequently asked questions are: “His he as big as Daddy ?” or “Are you getting good dick regularly”? He likes when I tell him everything .

Oh I so wish we lived closer together. I do have some free time coming up this summer and he’s actually helping me plan a getaway around his town.

I’m actually a bit nervous writing about someone who  reads my posts often and now will be reading my intimate thoughts about him. On the other hand, me being so candid In my posts gives him all the clues to properly ring my bell , this could actually enhance the experience .

 

Goodbye Shane

Sometimes we’d make plans to meet up, she’d all of a sudden have some sort of emotional upset and needed him to comfort her. She constantly needs reassurance that he loves her and she’s Is number one. It’s always something or another with Shane’s primary partner .

When we first began seeing each other, we were both on that new relationship high where we couldn’t get enough of each other .  I asked him over and over if he was sure that his partner was ok with all of the attention he was giving me.  He swore that everything was fine at home.  To be honest, I didn’t believe him but chose to ignore my intuition and continued seeing him.

There were times we would meet up and he’d constantly watch the clock. He had this nervous energy about him.  It’s as though he was sneaking out to be with me. I asked him about his skittish behavior and he told me that work and his in-laws were wearing on him and  apologized for acting strange.The last time we were together, he couldn’t maintain an erection.  He laughed It off and told me his partner got to him right before he met up with me and needed some time to recover.  I was upset and told him I had to get back to work an ended our date.

Why was I so upset? 

I was upset because I believed that she sent him to me this way out of spite and jealousy and purposely sabotaged our date. I’m so over these two. I don’t want the added stress in my life.

Managing Time Wisely

I honestly need to clean up my FreeTone and Kik apps. Although many of the men who messaged me are fun and flirty, my time Is honestly limited. Going forward, unless they really ring my bell and mentally connect, I’m going to have to turn off notifications  and block them.

I need to fight the urge to swipe right , especially If my inbox is already flooded. In an ideal world, Dating websites would have better filters so  that It wouldn’t take so much time to find what I’m looking for.  I’ve figured out that I have time for two-three lovers, currently I only have one, but honestly  I need more than once per week and that’s all he has time for.

I’ve begun directing men to this blog.  It’s beginning to filter quite a bit and I feel like I’m onto something here.  I wonder if I should link this blog to all of my profiles? Is that even allowed? Think how much excitement I would feel if when my phone is buzzing or I have a ton of notifications , the majority of them are from men who understand my wants and are physically attractive to me. Lol, I’d  be even more terrible at budgeting my time let me not kid myself.