Sex On The First Date?-Yes Please;)

I was asleep when the email notifications on my phone startled me. As I scrolled through emails for what felt like a few seconds, then I found an email notification from tinder. It was one of those tinder articles that I get every now and then. This most current one Is called: ”In Defense Of Sex On The First Date” by Kristin Collins Jackson.

I’ve never met or spoken to the author of this article, but her views certainly resonated with me. In my view, Kristin Is a modern sex-positive woman (just like Amber Rose) who isn’t succumbing to slut-shaming or any of those antiquated views about female sexuality.

I’m tired of bullshit standards that are meant to keep us in our place and living with bad sex, just so that we can be respectable women deserving of partners or husbands.

I’m all for sex on the first date if we’re both horny. Like Kristen, I’m neither insecure, disrespectful to my body, easy or a woman of low standards. I’m simply a free-spirited woman who doesn’t feel the need to play silly dating games. If the chemistry is good, I don’t feel the need to wait. Actually, I prefer to find out if there is sexual compatibility straight away before investing time in getting to know a new man.

 

Sex On The First Date?

I was asleep when the email notifications on my phone startled me . I reached over to my nightstand, grabbed my phone to sleepily check my messages and emails. Just another morning, nothing exciting or new but that’s not necessarily a bad thing. Predictably boring days are actually quite comforting to me.

I scrolled through emails for what felt like a few seconds, Then I found an email notification from tinder. It was one of those tindet articles that I get every now and then. This most current one Is called:”In Defense Of Sex On The First Date” by Kristin Collins Jackson. I’ve never met or spoken to the author of this article, but her views certainly resonated with me.

In my view, Kristin Is a modern sex-positive woman (just like Amber Rose) who isn’t succumbing to slut-shaming or any of those antiquated views about female sexuality.

I’m tired of the judgements and bullshit standards that are meant to keep us in our place and living with bad sex, just so that we can be respectable women deserving of partners or husbands.

I’m all for sex on the first date if we’re both horny. Like Kristen, I’m neither insecure, disrespectful to my body, easy or a woman of low standards. I’m simply a free spirited woman who doesn’t feel the need to play silly dating games. If the chemistry Is good, I don’t feel the need to wait. Actually, I prefer to find out if there is sexual compatibility straight away before investing time in getting to know a new man.

The Thirst Is Real

Hello everyone!

I realize that it’s been a while since my last blog post, sorry for the delay. Not much has changed since my last sexcapade. I guess you could say that I’m going through a bit of a drought right now (sex toys and porn are awesome 😩).

I am currently flirting with many men and eventually ( likely soon), a few will get lucky. To be clear, the drought is self-inflicted. Orgasms are so much more intense when I’ve been thirty for a while.

I’ve also promised myself to limit my dating pool to faithful readers of my blog ,it just makes life easier. I prefer to know up front if they’re fit well endowed and are able to please me before investing time in getting to know them.

Anyway, I’m looking forward to Summer. It is looking very exciting! I’m going to wait until it all unfolds before kissing and telling. Oh I can’t help myself, here are a few clues: red, New Jersey and water.

Talk to you soon,

❤️

Viv

Thank You Everyone

I’ve  had this blog up for a couple of months and so far so good.  It’s certainly a great icebreaker and filter .  It was never meant to be a great literary piece or even educational.  It was just meant to be an outlet really, then It became a useful tool . I  never overthink when I’m writing and only proofread If I feel like It.  Basically I write  exactly the same way that I speak.

Maybe I’ll make It all fancy later on once I find beautiful pictures with inexpensive royalty fees that appeal to me 🤔and do more with It.

It’s pretty awesome that so many of you have taken the time to read any part of It. Thank you so much.