He Came and Went Very Quickly

Hubby had an overnight business trip, the son had a sleepover at his friend’s house.  I was bored and home alone. Usually, when that happens I try to take advantage of the situation.  I was in the mood to try someone new and was up for an adventure so I looked through my messages and decided to invite this guy over who I was chatting with for a few weeks. He wanted to do dinner and a romantic walk, I honestly didn’t want all of that.  I was just in the mood for snacks, maybe a couple of glasses of red and of course sex. I didn’t have high expectations and would prefer not to give up my entire evening in case the company was terrible.

Nate just so happened to have the evening free and was eager to come over to finally meet me.  He lived about forty minutes away and didn’t mind the drive plus he was bored. A little background on Nate, He’s a personal trainer with a very large social media presence and steers all conversation topics right back to fitness and nutrition.  I honestly don’t mind dating the gym rats and muscle heads, stamina is usually amazing and let’s be honest, I find muscles very sexy.

Anyhoo, after confirming that Nate was coming over, I began my nightly rituals. Showered, shaved legs/bikini area, lotion, perfume soft music and romantic lights in the bedroom. Slipped on my satin robe and slippers, sat on the couch with a glass of wine and waited for him to text me to open the door. Finally, he arrived, I opened the door.  He looks just as he always does in his videos and pictures online, so no surprises thank goodness. What did surprise me was how nervous he was when he hugged me. Nate was sweating and shaking like a leaf. I thought to myself, ” This evening is going to suck”.  I did my very best to calm him down, told him we didn’t have to do anything that he didn’t want to do. I Offered him a glass of wine and sat next to him on the couch.

After about half an hour or so, he finally relaxed and began to smile, his smile was so sexy I could resist kissing him so I kissed him to see how he would react. He was a bit clumsy kissing me back, not from nervousness but lack of skills. Too wet and too much tongue. Then he did something I’ve never seen before on a date. He picked up his phone and started scanning the mini bags of pretzels and peanuts and entering the nutritional information for the wine in his “MyFitnessPal” App. I couldn’t help but laugh.  I asked him the calories in pussy juice (I felt a bit naughty ). He laughed so hard, choking on the wine.

After I had him calm and relaxed, I motioned for him to follow me upstairs and he did.  We got hot and heavy kissing, my hand inside his sweatpants stroking and mentally admiring his cock, then within three minutes or so he orgasmed. He apologized repeatedly and swore that this was the first time that he came so quickly (I don’t believe him). He got dressed and kissed me goodnight, I finished off with porn and toys.

 

Sex On The First Date?

I was asleep when the email notifications on my phone startled me . I reached over to my nightstand, grabbed my phone to sleepily check my messages and emails. Just another morning, nothing exciting or new but that’s not necessarily a bad thing. Predictably boring days are actually quite comforting to me.

I scrolled through emails for what felt like a few seconds, Then I found an email notification from tinder. It was one of those tindet articles that I get every now and then. This most current one Is called:”In Defense Of Sex On The First Date” by Kristin Collins Jackson. I’ve never met or spoken to the author of this article, but her views certainly resonated with me.

In my view, Kristin Is a modern sex-positive woman (just like Amber Rose) who isn’t succumbing to slut-shaming or any of those antiquated views about female sexuality.

I’m tired of the judgements and bullshit standards that are meant to keep us in our place and living with bad sex, just so that we can be respectable women deserving of partners or husbands.

I’m all for sex on the first date if we’re both horny. Like Kristen, I’m neither insecure, disrespectful to my body, easy or a woman of low standards. I’m simply a free spirited woman who doesn’t feel the need to play silly dating games. If the chemistry Is good, I don’t feel the need to wait. Actually, I prefer to find out if there is sexual compatibility straight away before investing time in getting to know a new man.

Sex On The First Date?-Yes Please;)

I was asleep when the email notifications on my phone startled me. As I scrolled through emails for what felt like a few seconds, then I found an email notification from tinder. It was one of those tinder articles that I get every now and then. This most current one Is called: ”In Defense Of Sex On The First Date” by Kristin Collins Jackson.

I’ve never met or spoken to the author of this article, but her views certainly resonated with me. In my view, Kristin Is a modern sex-positive woman (just like Amber Rose) who isn’t succumbing to slut-shaming or any of those antiquated views about female sexuality.

I’m tired of bullshit standards that are meant to keep us in our place and living with bad sex, just so that we can be respectable women deserving of partners or husbands.

I’m all for sex on the first date if we’re both horny. Like Kristen, I’m neither insecure, disrespectful to my body, easy or a woman of low standards. I’m simply a free-spirited woman who doesn’t feel the need to play silly dating games. If the chemistry is good, I don’t feel the need to wait. Actually, I prefer to find out if there is sexual compatibility straight away before investing time in getting to know a new man.

 

The Thirst Is Real

Hello everyone!

I realize that it’s been a while since my last blog post, sorry for the delay. Not much has changed since my last sexcapade. I guess you could say that I’m going through a bit of a drought right now (sex toys and porn are awesome 😩).

I am currently flirting with many men and eventually ( likely soon), a few will get lucky. To be clear, the drought is self-inflicted. Orgasms are so much more intense when I’ve been thirty for a while.

I’ve also promised myself to limit my dating pool to faithful readers of my blog ,it just makes life easier. I prefer to know up front if they’re fit well endowed and are able to please me before investing time in getting to know them.

Anyway, I’m looking forward to Summer. It is looking very exciting! I’m going to wait until it all unfolds before kissing and telling. Oh I can’t help myself, here are a few clues: red, New Jersey and water.

Talk to you soon,

❤️

Viv

Thank You Everyone

I’ve  had this blog up for a couple of months and so far so good.  It’s certainly a great icebreaker and filter .  It was never meant to be a great literary piece or even educational.  It was just meant to be an outlet really, then It became a useful tool . I  never overthink when I’m writing and only proofread If I feel like It.  Basically I write  exactly the same way that I speak.

Maybe I’ll make It all fancy later on once I find beautiful pictures with inexpensive royalty fees that appeal to me 🤔and do more with It.

It’s pretty awesome that so many of you have taken the time to read any part of It. Thank you so much.

The Perfect Bull For Me

Even though, I’ve been in this lifestyle for years, I’m not necessarily comfortable with calling my lovers “Bulls”.  Heck, I never knew that’s what they were called until doing some online research a couple of years ago.  Although “Bull” Isn’t necessarily my favorite word, It certainly fits the description of what  I need.

I wish that a more mainstream dating app or social media existed for people like me.  A few friends have suggested that I should stop  wishing  and create my own.  I’m seriously thinking of It. I know that the need Is there because of all the Kik groups I’ve been a member of at one time or another.

What type of bull Is perfect for me?

He should be adventurous, openminded,  non- possessive, good sense of humor, nice cock that stays hard (even with a condom on),great stamina, fit and stable.

I prefer him to be  local, but I’m willing to travel If we have an amazing connection. Ahh yes, I like them young too (under 35). Twenty years old Is  my minimum but I’ve been chatting with some nineteen year olds that are trying to get me to rethink that.